Monday, April 18, 2005

Relationships

Happily born and raised, we succumb to Relationships, starting in our teens, as the hormones drive us to think differently.

The next few years cement our future. Some take to finishing or succeeding in their ambition of getting a college degree. Some struggle bridging relationships and studies. Succeed or not, soon most of us are thinking about finding a job and settling down.

But, Relationships ...some intimate, some not so much...continue to walk along.

Some of us get into jobs and soon see our wallets bloating. Some of us just make enough to make the ends meet. We are out of the shackles now...we have the money to spend.

But, Relationships, continue ...and infact thanks to the Money we have more now.! Some of us search for more and more.! with the hope of finding better ones.!

Time goes by, some start to wonder if having a family is the right way, some do ...and relationships grow , we have the in-laws and it grows even further when we start having children.!!

Life rolls on, Time rolls by and some earlier relationships...gradually fade away, like water dripping from leaking bottles.

We try to make new relationships , some succeed, some fail and get into their shell. Some old relationships knock now and then, some comeback to hurt/haunt/give us rebirth.

We think hard...this time not to be fooled...by 'Relationships'.

Soon everything changes and we end up in coffins or get burned to ashes, we surrender to the mother nature.

Relationships still continue...now with the Mother Nature.

I cherish my relationships. I wish they'll continue even in my next life ( If I have one).

7 comments:

Chakra said...

Narayanan - this is a good one.

Couldn't do my regular reads for abt a week or so. Visited here after a while and read thru' all the posts.. enjoyed everyone of them.. good job thalaiva... enna ministry venum sollunga? ;)

Anonymous said...

Very philosophical, this post, Narayanan! Now that I'm a parent, I wish I'd have realised earlier in life how much our parents (particularly,Mother) would have done for all of us! I don't think this one relationship between parents/children should ever be broken, by the passage of time and happening of events! :)

Krish said...

Uravugal Thodarkathai
Unarvugal Sirukathai
Oru Kathai Endrum Mudiyalaam
Mudivilum Ondru Thodaralaam
Iniyellaam, sugame! :-)

saranyan r said...

good one Narayanan. relationships are what we live for, actually. and some of us don't even realize that.

Narayanan Venkitu said...

Chakra - No problems, Thank you
Ravi - 100% You are right.
Thennavan - Great song, Great tune, Great voice. !!

Venkat - Same with your song.!

Saranyan - Its true, Imagine a world with no relationships?

Kay said...

Everytime i seek a relation i expect more and end up getting hurt. So entha relationship'naaalum romba expect panna koodathu nu nenaikiren.

Narayanan Venkitu said...

Kay,
Edhir parppugal irundhal dhanae Aemattram.
But kashtam dhan.!!